i ran into that a lot when i went to eastern Europe. i met this 60-something New Yorker who was trying to hook up with 19-year-olds. he tried to give me tips as to what to look for in women to tell if they were gold-diggers, good candidates for kitchen-slaves, or a good lay. i was so disgusted by this guy that i forced my mind to wander while i just smiled and nodded and wished for a not-so-obvious exit.